

A variation of this approach is when he seems not to be interested, or is acting cool and indifferent, or is even pursuing someone else for a time. Many a woman has begun a friendly relationship with a nice, seemingly unaggressive, intellectual Gemini, only to find herself in bed with him-and not quite sure how she got there. He's a past master at the art of seduction. It's all too easy for you to fall into this man's silken web. He was born under the sign of the Twins, and in a way he is looking for his astral twin, the spiritual soul mate who will complete his nature and put an end to his duality. If you ask him why he flits from one female to another, he'll tell you it's because he's searching for his own identity, or the perfect love, or some elusive goal of perfection. It's as if through them he hopes to uncover a new facet in himself. (Of course, they don't usually stay involved.) Something about women who live on a dramatic level, who really feel emotions and express them, intrigues and fascinates Gemini. Curiously, though, many Gemini men tend to get involved with intense, emotional women. He thinks sex is fascinating because it continually renews itself but love is terminal. The truth is that the Gemini male is made uneasy by too much emotion, by a woman who takes love too seriously. Just as a woman begins to take him seriously he vanishes in a puff of smoke. But he also needs his minimum daily requirement of fun, and when the fun leaves a relationship so does he. The Gemini man is genuinely interested in what women have to say, how their minds work, what he can learn from them. This Mercury ruled man loves women, which is one of his secrets of success with them. Enjoy it while you can its stay will be brief. See that bright flash of color in the garden? It's a living butterfly, not a specimen in a case.

It won't do any good to try to pin him down. And like moths, women flare briefly in his life and are gone.

Women are drawn like moths to the bright flame of his vivacity, his zest for living. A date with him is like an entertainment that never ends. He's the world's best date-quick-witted, charming, interested in his companion, generous, and imaginative about places to go and things to see. But because he still craves for change, he will try to discover new things for himself, his partner, and the relationship. The Gemini man wants to make sure that he is making his partner happy. He may come across as flirty, but once a relationship with him is cemented, he honors his commitment and will put his best into it. The Gemini man is not emotional by nature, but he is quite a passionate lover. Because of their need for variety in life every now and then, they find it difficult to sustain a stagnant job. He loves and embraces change, causing him to move from one thing to the next. Gemini men are enthusiastic, open-minded, quick-witted, and appealing. He may behave very moody at times which may take a toll on his other half. His urge for change in life may lead to many short-term partnerships. This quality can create trouble in his love relationship with his partner. Gemini's also love to gossip and this may sometimes be a reason their friends to get angry. This can result in minor tiffs which affect his companions although not himself. Since he hates monotony and is always hunting for a change, he may not stick to plans made by his work mates or friends. His casual behavior and attitude towards serious things can be quite a turn off for many. In extreme situations, he may get cunning in his thoughts. A Gemini male tends to get nervous very quickly, he can be superficial and very inconsistent in his behavior. Males from this sign love, and are good at, multi-tasking, but do not like stagnant work. He can also deal with emergencies very quickly as he has a tendency of thinking spontaneously. In the workplace, a Gemini man works best in groups as he tends to brainstorm and gather opinions of many before taking vital decisions. Being a hater of monotony he will attempt to discover exciting new things for himself and his partner to enjoy. He will try to make sure all wishes of his soul mate are fulfilled. He may tend towards being flirty, although once he has committed he will try to put life into the love relationship in any way possible. A Gemini man is a very passionate lover even though he is not an emotional person. He likes to take on challenges and prefers an adventurous life with his friends.

As a friend, he would be close to just a few but will prove to be the life of every party and social gatherings. Many qualities of a Gemini man are unique to this sign, he is appealing, quick witted, rational, enthusiastic, captivating, loving and broad minded. Gemini is the third zodiac sign of the astrological calendar.
